Funerals

 

  1. What is a Catholic funeral?
    • A Catholic funeral is a religious service held in honor of a deceased person who was a member of the Catholic faith. It typically includes three main parts: the Vigil (or Wake), the Funeral Mass, and the Committal.
  2. What happens during a Catholic funeral service?
    • Vigil (Wake): Often held the evening before the Funeral Mass, this is a time for family and friends to gather for prayer and remembrance. It may include the praying of the Rosary.
    • Funeral Mass: This is the central liturgical celebration for the deceased. The Mass includes readings from the Bible, a homily, prayers, and the Eucharist.
    • Committal: This is the final rite, usually at the graveside, where the body is laid to rest with prayers of committal, asking God to receive the deceased into paradise.
  3. Are there specific readings or prayers used during a Catholic funeral?
    • Yes, Catholic funerals typically include specific readings from the Old Testament, New Testament, and the Gospels. The family may choose these readings, often with guidance from the priest. Prayers of the Faithful and other prayers are also part of the Mass.
  4. Can a Catholic funeral be held without a Mass?
    • Yes, a funeral service without a Mass, known as a Funeral Liturgy Outside Mass, can be conducted, especially when a Mass is not possible. This might occur in a funeral home rather than a church.
  5. Who can have a Catholic funeral?
    • Any baptized Catholic and often catechumens (those formally preparing for baptism) are entitled to a Catholic funeral. Non-Catholic members of a Catholic’s family may also be allowed a Catholic funeral with the permission of the bishop.
  6. What are the guidelines for music at a Catholic funeral?
    • Music chosen should be appropriate and reflect the Christian hope in resurrection, rather than solely focusing on grief. Many parishes have guidelines about suitable music and hymns for funerals.
  7. Is cremation allowed in the Catholic Church?
    • Yes, cremation is permitted, but the Church prefers that the body be present for the Funeral Mass, with cremation taking place afterward. The ashes should be treated with respect, kept intact, and buried in a cemetery or columbarium.
  8. What should attendees wear to a Catholic funeral?
    • Attendees are typically expected to dress modestly and respectfully. Darker colors are traditional but not mandatory.
  9. How should the deceased be prepared for a Catholic funeral?
    • If possible, the body of the deceased should be treated with respect and prepared according to local custom, often involving embalming. The body is usually placed in a coffin which may be open or closed during the vigil.
  10. What are the rules about eulogies at Catholic funerals?
    • Eulogies in the context of a Funeral Mass are generally discouraged or limited in number and length; however, they are often welcomed during the Vigil or at the reception following the burial.
  11. What happens if a Catholic dies without receiving the last rites?
    • The Church provides prayers and blessings for the deceased even if they did not receive the sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick (commonly referred to as last rites) before death. The focus is on praying for the repose of their soul during the funeral rites.