Marriage

  1. What are the basic requirements for a Catholic marriage?
    • At least one of the parties must be a baptized Catholic.
    • Both individuals must be free to marry (i.e., not currently married).
    • The couple must consent to a lifelong, exclusive union open to the possibility of children.
    • The marriage must be witnessed by a Catholic priest or deacon and two other witnesses.
  2. Do both parties need to be Catholic?
    • No, but if one party is not Catholic, the Catholic party must obtain permission from their bishop to marry a non-Catholic. This is known as a “dispensation for disparity of cult” for a non-baptized person or “permission for mixed marriage” for a baptized non-Catholic.
  3. What is required for preparation for a Catholic marriage?
    • Couples typically undergo a marriage preparation course, or “pre-Cana,” which covers topics such as the sacrament of marriage, communication, finances, sexuality, and parenting.
  4. Are there any restrictions on where a Catholic wedding can take place?
    • Traditionally, Catholic weddings are held in a Catholic church. However, with a bishop’s permission, weddings may be held in other suitable places.
  5. What is a Nuptial Mass, and is it required?
    • A Nuptial Mass includes the celebration of the Eucharist and is specific to weddings involving two Catholics. It is not required, especially if one party is not Catholic, in which case a wedding ceremony without Mass is common.
  6. Can a Catholic marriage be annulled?
    • Yes, the Church can declare a marriage null if it finds that a necessary element for a valid marriage was missing from the beginning. This is not the same as a civil divorce; it is a statement that a sacramental marriage was never validly established.
  7. What documents are needed for a Catholic wedding?
    • Baptismal certificates for the Catholic party (or parties).
    • Completion certificates for marriage preparation courses.
    • Permission from the parish priest.
    • If previously married, a declaration of nullity (annulment) or death certificate of the former spouse.
  8. How long does marriage preparation take?
    • The duration can vary by diocese, but typically it’s about six months to a year.
  9. Can a divorced person marry in the Catholic Church?
    • Divorced persons can remarry in the Church only if they have obtained an annulment of their previous marriage, indicating that the previous union was not sacramental.
  10. What are the costs involved in a Catholic wedding?
    • Costs can include a fee for the use of the church, fees for the priest or deacon, and contributions to cover the marriage preparation programs. Additional costs may be incurred for music, flowers, and other services.